{"id":4249,"date":"2024-07-27T07:16:58","date_gmt":"2024-07-27T07:16:58","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/www.bm-insight.com\/?p=4249"},"modified":"2024-07-27T07:17:19","modified_gmt":"2024-07-27T07:17:19","slug":"this-is-your-song","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/www.bm-insight.com\/nl\/2024\/07\/27\/this-is-your-song\/","title":{"rendered":"This is your Song"},"content":{"rendered":"\n<p>My gift is my song &#8211; and this one&#8217;s for you<\/p>\n\n\n\n<figure class=\"wp-block-image size-large\"><img fetchpriority=\"high\" decoding=\"async\" width=\"1024\" height=\"576\" src=\"https:\/\/www.bm-insight.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2024\/07\/Notenbalk2-1024x576.jpg\" alt=\"\" class=\"wp-image-4251\" srcset=\"https:\/\/www.bm-insight.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2024\/07\/Notenbalk2-1024x576.jpg 1024w, https:\/\/www.bm-insight.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2024\/07\/Notenbalk2-300x169.jpg 300w, https:\/\/www.bm-insight.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2024\/07\/Notenbalk2-768x432.jpg 768w, https:\/\/www.bm-insight.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2024\/07\/Notenbalk2-200x113.jpg 200w, https:\/\/www.bm-insight.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2024\/07\/Notenbalk2.jpg 1280w\" sizes=\"(max-width: 1024px) 100vw, 1024px\" \/><\/figure>\n\n\n\n<p>For years I battled with, and misunderstood feelings of fear, anxiety, insecurity, depression or feeling in \u201csurvival\u201d mode with running low on energy as a consequence.<br><br>Depending on the situation you are in, who you are with, the phasing in life and how you feel, you subconsciously radiate a certain appearance accordingly. As if you \u201csing a slightly or completely different song\u201d.<br><br>Behavior is based on emotions and being unbalanced can make you feel out of tune. \u201cc&#8217;est le ton qui fait la musique\u201d.<br><br>But what is MY tune then? Does everyone have a certain tune? What are the keys, what are the chords of that tune?<br><br>Some of you may have seen that clip where Ed Sheeran demonstrated how many songs can be played through \u201conly\u201d four chords. It reminded me of the four layers I defined after studying and testing multiple personality models as MBTI, DISC, 16personalities, CVI, Enneagram and many others.<br><br>I noticed there were \u201ckeys\u201d in them to mentally better understand myself and the people around me. It provided me with a guide to my mental wiring and helped me become intelligently aware of how I behave in certain situations and why.<br><br>So I worked out that there are 8.503.056 behavioral styles from a personality test point of view. With 9 types over 4 layers with 6 variant compositions per type where each style has its own unique appearance, or melody if you will.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<figure class=\"wp-block-image size-large\"><img decoding=\"async\" width=\"1024\" height=\"576\" src=\"https:\/\/www.bm-insight.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2024\/07\/PersonalityTestsBW-1024x576.jpg\" alt=\"\" class=\"wp-image-4252\" srcset=\"https:\/\/www.bm-insight.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2024\/07\/PersonalityTestsBW-1024x576.jpg 1024w, https:\/\/www.bm-insight.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2024\/07\/PersonalityTestsBW-300x169.jpg 300w, https:\/\/www.bm-insight.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2024\/07\/PersonalityTestsBW-768x432.jpg 768w, https:\/\/www.bm-insight.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2024\/07\/PersonalityTestsBW-200x113.jpg 200w, https:\/\/www.bm-insight.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2024\/07\/PersonalityTestsBW.jpg 1280w\" sizes=\"(max-width: 1024px) 100vw, 1024px\" \/><\/figure>\n\n\n\n<p>I started testing if it were possible to work out which exact keys and in which order make up for &#8220;my song&#8221;. The melody where I feel aware, connected to my heart and connected to consciousness or intelligence.<br><br>When I worked out, felt and experienced my specific type of melody it was emotional. Like a forgotten feeling and a gateway to happiness or destiny. A meeting with Self that was ignored and told off.<br><br>\ud83c\udfb5 \u201cMy gift is my song &#8211; and this one&#8217;s for you &#8211; and you can tell everybody this is your song &#8211; how wonderful life is while you&#8217;re in the world\u201d by Sir Elton John.<br><br>Through practice I was able to get back to this sensation of harmony more consciously and more often. I learned how it gave me access to my desires, talent, purpose, intuition and what it is that I am here to bring and to experience.<br><br>After I retired from my existing professional corporate routine I started to live my tune. I also wanted to find out and pinpoint the specific tune of others. Now being able to do this from the heart and help work out someone&#8217;s tune is a fulfilling part of my new career.<br><br>\u201dTo love someone is to learn the song in their heart and sing it to them when they have forgotten it\u201d &#8211; by Arne Evenson Garborg.<br><br>I welcome you to<br>\ud83c\udfb5 like and come and find out your own tune<br>\ud83c\udfb6 share, repost and forward to those who might have forgotten their song<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>\ud83c\udfbc learn how this works and help others find their song too<br><br>Learn more about Intelligent Awareness on: <\/p>\n\n\n\n<p><span class=\"5MFfHeN\"><blockquote class=\"wp-embedded-content\" data-secret=\"qigu47hTIF\"><a href=\"https:\/\/www.bm-insight.com\/nl\/intelligent-awareness-program\/\">Intelligent Awareness Program<\/a><\/blockquote><iframe class=\"wp-embedded-content\" sandbox=\"allow-scripts\" security=\"restricted\" style=\"position: absolute; visibility: hidden;\" title=\"&#8220;Intelligent Awareness Program&#8221; &#8212; BM-Insight\" src=\"https:\/\/www.bm-insight.com\/nl\/intelligent-awareness-program\/embed\/#?secret=Vy6TP3K7Uz#?secret=qigu47hTIF\" data-secret=\"qigu47hTIF\" width=\"500\" height=\"282\" frameborder=\"0\" marginwidth=\"0\" marginheight=\"0\" scrolling=\"no\"><\/iframe><\/span><\/p>\n\n\n\n<figure class=\"wp-block-image size-large\"><img decoding=\"async\" width=\"1024\" height=\"576\" src=\"https:\/\/www.bm-insight.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2024\/07\/Berry-1-1024x576.jpg\" alt=\"\" class=\"wp-image-4253\" srcset=\"https:\/\/www.bm-insight.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2024\/07\/Berry-1-1024x576.jpg 1024w, https:\/\/www.bm-insight.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2024\/07\/Berry-1-300x169.jpg 300w, https:\/\/www.bm-insight.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2024\/07\/Berry-1-768x432.jpg 768w, https:\/\/www.bm-insight.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2024\/07\/Berry-1-200x113.jpg 200w, https:\/\/www.bm-insight.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2024\/07\/Berry-1.jpg 1280w\" sizes=\"(max-width: 1024px) 100vw, 1024px\" \/><\/figure>\n\n\n\n<p><br><\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>My gift is my song &#8211; and this one&#8217;s for you For years I battled with, and misunderstood feelings of fear, anxiety, insecurity, depression or feeling in \u201csurvival\u201d mode with running low on energy as a consequence. 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